This is one of those could have been a blog post type of book. It can be summarized as:

  • Spend alone time
    • Take long walks without your phone to think
    • Write down your thoughts as letters to yourself
  • Messaging doesn’t reduce loneliness, you need face to face or verbal communication
    • Don’t write comments on social media
    • Hold conversation office hours (Ex: You can call me at 17:30 any day or have a regular coffee shop schedule)
  • Reclaim leisure time
    • Prefer demanding activities over passive consumption like watching TV or playing video games
    • Create things in the physical world
    • Do activities that involve social interactions (board games, crossfit, volunteering)